If you read The Three Griefs 2017, you will get a little understanding of what my last year looked like and what has compelled me to write. I received so much feedback and thoughtful response. My post actually helped others, which was an unexpected outcome helping me and hopefully them feel less alone. I also had more positive memories about my comadre just last night that didn’t illicit bitterness or anger. I moved forward. I went from why is this happening to what can I do about it. Powerful.